Deb Vani - দেব ভানি - देव वाणी

• In this world of duality, the more the joy, the more is the sorrow. I have stopped feeling jealous about others, those better than me, more successful than I am. If I can have have so much suffering with this little amount of accomplishment in life, how much more would those have whom I am jealous of. So jealously isn't manly. 
•  An absolute way to bash my ego and self-importance:
• When I feel surrounded by people or some people, they see some value in me. So such happiness due to accomplishment of being surrounded by people is fake. When they see no value in me they will abandon me or when I am left alone, it means I am no longer of any value
• When I feel down for being alone, that means I am of no value to any. But take the joy in living a life where it is more real
• Aloneness is bliss. Reason being when others will be with me only when they see value in me and abandon me when they don't; then why do I need people at all. But be there for them since if I get so string with this quality, there will be those who needs support and not gyan
• The reason why it is devastating to think ourself as the body is that when we look around what do we see:
• A tiger running after the deer and eating it
• Men eating pig, rat, cow,.......
• If one does not eat they other, the other will eat it
• Then are we merely food. Actually we are. And how to live with this identity. It's a choice to make, either taken this as a reality or live in some fake logic on spirituality
• The worst of things and people are found it the best of outer cover and clothes:
• They may not know that how bad they are
• They may be intentionally taking the garb of goodness to conceal the bad in them. And they may not be even aware of it and instead must have fixed their shortcomings
• This being the reason why temples are surrounded by the worst people
• When it comes to religion, spirituality and actually all or many phases of life, logic can or may be used as a relative and limited tool. Theory of Karma says that we have to be reborn if we act against Dharma and also say that very rare people get liberation. In that case 99.99999999999999999............% of the population will be reborn and based on the effect of nuclear fission, the population will go towards infinity.
• Eg: If a bastard dies, he will leave many bastards; let's say 10 children. So he will be born again and those 10 may be too and imagine the exponential effect on population
• And when told about this to a learned, he will say that's God's play
• Better than trying to believe in God out of force, better believe in myself while adhering to Dharma, Yama, Niyama. Say always, realize that "I am the One I was always looking for". Stop the search, whether for food, objects of desire or Google Search :). Start the Search and let it end to or in myself.
• Do not feel bad that I am not always doing what all are doing. Who told crowd is always right!
• Love towards objects or anything in this phenomenal world creates attachment and that's bad. Do I think that when I hate someone I am sparing myself. That troubles me more than anyone else. If at all I want to make one feel miserable and helpless; more than hating him/ her; then just offboard him off my Consciousness. Ignoring makes one feel even more bad than being hated. The gyan to give here is to put off all distractions, indulgences, temptations off my consciousness rather than fighting an often losing war of fighting them objectively
• Who say killing oneself is bad. Kill myself, give off this body, stop nourishing it when I am no longer of any use to any or am harmful to society. That give me control to give up my life the way I want to. May be I had no control of my birth, but can this be a way to have it over my life and death
• Don't know if it is trust, selfless love or desire or some good or bad thing. When someone sees something in you, he will love you despite all your shortcoming and when "That" something isn't there. despite everything I or that person does, there will always be some shortfall that can be accounted for. So never go and please the wrong God
• Any women, unless she is selflessly motherly is an absolute devil and to be ignored. The intent of an women can be traced from her degree of show of cleavages or how often she plays with her hair. Be aware of those who their skin and say men how dare they look at them. They do so intending to show themselves off and it gets suicidal for an woman who is beautifully adorned but ignored or overlooked. If she is above all these, she is a Goddess and can bring many down
• Do not take pride in surrounded by many friends. It's unmanly to depend on anything or anyone. A real man works out his life and death
• Principle above people/ individual. A man is as much worth the principles. Any unreliable person can take shelter under great principles and is valid as long he lives that. So man is merely a medium for principles and nothing more. With this being the reason, there is no point crying for a man even on his death since the Principle remains for even. It goes well to say that live for Principles else you are meant for the slaughter house. If you can't be good, then better end the life as someone's food. Nice rhyme
• Just be careful not to overestimate myself when all are conforming with me. I may be a fool, but people do not want to offend me so that they get derived of any benefits I can offer. And also be careful and not give up on something when I am left all alone. It may be that none has understood it as much as I have and I must not risk to give it up just for the sake of not being part of the crowd. Sometimes if not always, it is better to give up life for a great idea, principle,... than living a real life based on lies and fakes
• Give up desire, attachment, aversion, sex, food, pull of the senses, dualities and so on. Then all the Gods are my Slave. How can anyone do me any harm when I am not attached even to life or death
• Decide what action I will do in life. Then what all tools and food and source of energy needed for that, then decide on that and the apt food and then eat only that. Eat non-veg if my action is of a warrior and can help me be  better one, eat veg if my work is reading and study related. Eat that that is apt for the kind of work I will do and never work to eat. Break the slavery and the bondage to work and food and so on. And what work I must do? Dharma is one reference for it. Do that action that Dharma says so. But be not enslaved to Dharma either, Be it and not by it
• No harm treating myself God as long as I am not associated with the intellect, body, mind. Why to search for that when I am and can become. Someone I love says to manifest the Divine in me. Let me once try that out and see how far can I drag it by being and not trying
• I have found God, women, children,...  addicted to Attention. My girlfriend wants me to think only of her, only see her and none else. Even God wants the same; doing just the same what an women or child does. I am not realized yet to grasp the real intent of it
• Change, updates, increments, decrements, transition,..... is the foundation of this phenomenal world. The best thing in this life that does not change dies out soon; be it the most beautiful woman, the tastiest food, the best relation and so on. That why relation fails or fades out. It stagnates often
• Friendship is overrated. Unmanly people are in need of friends. Be dependable and not dependent just for mere gains
• A man who has desire for woman can never be my friend. He can ditch friendship just for a woman. Carnal desire is stronger than friendship. Wish I see more cases where it gets untrue. He isn't even safe if he has any desires.
• I am finally happy when I am happy when all alone in and with myself. When the need for anything gets obsolete. When I expect nothing, wait for nothing, desire nothing while everything is happening in and with myself
• Reach a state where I get everything even trying or aspiring for it and I am not even aware of it
• Thrash the enemy by not hating him, but by ignoring him. Be it people, objects or desires
• We all get hopeless even after chasing happiness and getting it:
• Peace always brings happiness
• Not all happiness brings peace
• Only that happiness that also gives peace is real happiness
• There are some who just can't be ignored and attracts despite all the flaws in them. While there are some who put so much effort in looking, acting, presenting better; but still go unnoticed. These are those who win even after losing while the others lose even after winning. That brings the difference between the essential and the non-essential, the core from the non-core, the substance from the superficial and so on. And unfortunately we cannot know what is that. Since once we know we cannot be that, instead we will act to be that and when we start acting and not being we again fall back to being unreal. Is that core what we call being egoless, selfless, flawless, effortless, graceful, divine,......They are either loved or hated but cannot be ignored. And hated by those who cannot be like them; and again that's love afterall